On Consistency and Changes

Welp, hope everyone has had a good four months, which is the last time I checked in. I figured I’d spend a little bit of time today talking about what’s going on in my life here and why I sometimes struggle to engage here consistently, even though I love much of what this space has to offer.

But first I’ll start with a bit of a life update. Part of the journey to Seattle this week for me was being able to explore my gender identity and presentation. Sort of a new year, new city, new me type vibe. And as a part of that I’ve felt drawn to more masculine style, have shaved my head, and now identify as non-binary and use they/them pronouns. I’m still using the name Kathryn as changing my name feels like playing a part, I’m still Kathryn just the correct version of me. It’s definitely a scary time in our country to identify in this way, but I will not be erased. Trans and non-binary people have been here forever, and we won’t stop being here just because our government has decided we don’t exist.

A white nonbinary person with a buzz cut takes a selfie.  They have purple and gold eyeshadow and wear a sleeveless denim button up

So yeah, it’s been a little hard for me to stay engaged in this space. I have said this before here, but I’m always more surprised when I do manage to be here consistently then when I don’t. I’m the kind of person who doesn’t tend to do things every day for long periods of time, habit forming has never been one of my strong suits. Nothing awful has been keeping me from here, I’m just figuring out my new life here and blogging time doesn’t always fit in. I think this space was incredibly useful to me during the pandemic (even though I started this blog before everything really kicked off), especially as I was doing a lot of crafting. But as things opened up and I found myself doing other activities, it just moved down the priority list. I guess long breaks are something you can expect from this blog, it’s more the norm than the exception. After twice trying to use Year of Projects to create more consistency, it clearly doesn’t work so I’m gonna stop trying that.

I haven’t done a great job of documenting my crafting over the past few months, but here’s a few pictures of things. I’ve got an FO post planned for one of the items here, since I just finished it this week.

I’ve been really settling in to life here, and absolutely love getting to live in such an amazing city. I’ve been going to a lot of sporting events, breweries, craft fairs, and really just living life to the fullest. My sister came to visit recently and we had an amazing time together. Summer in Seattle is just the best time.

Hope you enjoyed this photo heavy post! Talk to you soon (maybe)!

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7 responses to “On Consistency and Changes”

  1. Love that you’re discovering and embracing a truer version of yourself, and that you’re enjoying Seattle!

  2. Sounds like you’re having an awesome time! Love the pronouns sampler 😁

  3. Echoing what Bonny said! So glad you are engaged in this journey and discovering yourself, and that you are enjoying Seattle! It is a great city for adventure 🙂 Looking forward to hearing updates from you as you have time!

  4. Sooo good to hear from you. So very glad you are doing well and loving Seattle. You look terrific. I had just been thinking this past week about how I hadn’t seen your blog for a long time. Didn’t realize it was 4 months!! Glad you are still knitting even if it isn’t a daily thing. Hope you will still update from time to time. Names – my maiden name is my middle name because I just couldn’t stop being Maureen Higgins after 34 years. Took a good 3+ years before I felt I wasn’t using a fake name when I used my married last name.

  5. I feel you on failed consistency at blogging! For me, it was going back to work and sorting in front of a computer screen that killed my desire to sit in front of any screens! And my limited creative time.

    I LOVE your new cut! I think it brings out the sunshine in your soul. It really suites you.
    This cross country move seems to have been the right move for you! I think you’ve crammed more adventure into the last 4 months than I have in the past year!
    Excited to see what’s next.

  6. I am so happy to read an update from you! I am also so happy that you are embracing your true self… and I agree, no one should ever be erased… ever. Thanks also for sharing a glimpse into the gorgeous city you are living in! I hope we see you back here soon! XO

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